BDSM – what is it all about

What is bondage and dominance play all about? BDSM is becoming more and more popular, and a lot of London escorts are beginning to introduce it as part of their menus. Is it something new? We may think that BDSM is something new, but it has actually been around for a very long time. It has also been used around the world in many different cultures so it is something which is not new, or exclusive, to London escorts. The practice of bondage is wiel recorded and it is said that even many Roman emperors enjoyed a bit of bondage.

But, what makes bondage so popular today? Amy from London escorts thinks it is because many of us are trying to escape into a bit of a fantasy world. We are sick of daily life, and we actually want to play, says Amy from London escorts. Our need to play is not only turning up at London escorts. Looking around, you will notice that it is everywhere, and it is interesting to note that it is mainly adults that indulge in one of the popular online fantasy games such as World of Warcraft.

Do you will that you need to be punished? Some of the gents who visit bdsm escorts clearly feel that they need to be punished. Could it be that they need to feel that they are not in control anymore? Some of the gents who date London escorts have very high powered jobs, and perhaps this is why they need to let go. It is like a therapy for them, and they feel a sense of release when they indulge in BDSM. Interestingly many men are happy to be the receiver and they want the lady to be the dominant one.

How do you get into BDSM? You need to start of carefully, says Amy. Most girls at London escorts do not encourage anybody to jump straight into very serious bondage. I always introduce my gents at London escorts into bondage play in a particular way. Starting off with a few lights restrains and ticklers is normally the best way of doing so. If somebody offers you paddles and sort of more hardcore BDSM stuff straight away, they clearly do not understand BDSM game play.

You really need to trust the person who is your partner as well. I make sure that I have certain break words which we are both familiar with and use when we need to. Stop may not be enough, so the break word is often something which is not associated with bondage at all. For instance, I may tell a gent to say salt and pepper when it becomes too much. Once you are comfortable with the basics of BDSM, you can move on but you certainly need to be happy and be able to trust your partner completely. Is it fun? I think it is fun, but you have to be able to appreciate that it is just game play, nothing serious. I call it playing with the devil in me, finishes Amy.